For the Kingdom of God is not a matter of what we eat or drink, but of living a life of goodness and peace 
and joy in the Holy Spirit. 
Romans 14:17
This is my commandment: 
Love each other in the same way I have loved you. 
John 15:12 

...but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious. 1Peter 3:4